We are going to show you how
who and
whom work in
Adjective Clauses.
The women were nice. They visited our school.
We want to combine those sentences, using
Adjective Clauses.
They is a
subject pronoun. Well,
who is a
subject pronoun too, in
Adjective Clauses.
The women who visited our school were nice.
Great! So far so good. But notice: when you use
who, you don't need
they anymore!
Now
whom.
The women were nice. I met them yesterday.
Them is an
object pronoun. Well
whom is too, in
Adjective Clauses.
The women whom I met yesterday were nice.
Now notice something: You don't need
them if you use
whom.
Ready to do some more
Adjective Clauses?
Okay. Let's combine these next two sentences:
I thanked the boy. He found my wallet.
We can use
who:
I thanked the boy who found my wallet.
Or, listen to this!: we can use
That.
I thanked the boy that found my wallet.
Now let's combine these next two sentences:
The men were kind. I met them.
We can use
whom:
The men whom I met were kind.
Or we can use
that:
The men that I met were kind.
Or... now, here's where you need to pay attention, we can omit, yes omit (that means "leave out" or "not use") an
object pronoun in an
Adjective Clause! Can you believe that?
The men ø I met were kind.
That's what native speakers usually do. They omit an
object pronoun when they can.
And let me tell you this: native speakers don't like to use
whom a lot. It's one of those "get all dressed up in your best clothes" words: very formal.